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Obi-Wan Kenobi had built his life around the art of containment.
There were moments... Moments that were rare, almost fleeting. Moments when he wondered whether the Council had mistaken his silence for serenity or whether his restraint had been read as enlightenment rather than what it truly was: a learned reflex, honed sharp enough to cut away anything that threatened to surface.
He did not deny emotion. In fact he thought that it was a misconception often attributed to the Jedi. Emotions existed; they were acknowledged, examined, then set aside.
Obi-Wan had simply grown very, very skilled at the final step.
He had learned young that grief did not wait to be invited.
Qui-Gon’s death had taught him that lesson with brutal efficiency. It had never occurred to him that Qui-Gon could be killed. He had assumed that a being so strong in the Force could cheat death. He remembered kneeling beside the pyre, the heat of it pressing against his skin, the Force roaring with a thousand competing sensations that all resolved into one unbearable certainty: there would be no guidance anymore. No steady presence at his back, no quiet voice to correct him or reassure him or remind him that failure was survivable.
Obi-Wan had not allowed himself to mourn properly then.
There had been a boy standing beside him. All wide-eyed, frightened, already clinging to him as if Obi-Wan were a lifeline rather than another drowning man. So Obi-Wan had straightened his spine, drawn his grief inward, and promised himself and the boy that he would be enough.
That promise haunted him still.
Anakin Skywalker not only had grown up beneath that promise but also under its weight, under its limitations. Obi-Wan had loved him fiercely, but such thing as love had been expressed through structure, through care, through the shaping of behavior. He had corrected more often than he had comforted. Guided more than he had listened.
There were times now when he wondered whether Anakin had learned absence from him.
Especially now.
After Geonosis, the Temple felt wrong.
Not hostile. Not threatening. Just subtly… misaligned. Corridors that had once echoed with Anakin’s restless energy now felt too quiet, as though the Force itself were holding its breath. Obi-Wan would pause in doorways without realizing why, sensing a familiar presence that never quite resolved.
Meditation brought him no answers.
When he reached for Anakin through the bond, he found impressions rather than connection. Flickers of emotions, tangles of them really. Restlessness, urgency, something warm and carefully shielded and as he delved deeper, suddenly — nothing. It was like pressing his palm against transparisteel: close enough to feel heat, too distant to touch.
The bond that they've built should have faded sometime ago. Obi-Wan reminded himself of that often. Former Masters were not meant to linger in their padawan’s inner lives. The bond should've been gone when Anakin was knighted.
Attachment disguised as mentorship was still attachment.
Yet Obi-Wan could not bring himself to sever it deliberately.
Another failure, he thought sometimes. Another indulgence.
He observed Anakin the way he always had, from a distance that pretended to be appropriate. He noted the way Anakin avoided prolonged eye contact in the Temple now, how his presence flared brightest during missions, when purpose demanded intensity. He noted the precise control Anakin exerted over his shields when returning late, smoothing his emotions into something neutral enough to pass unnoticed.
Anakin had learned discretion somewhere.
That realization stung more than it should have.
Obi-Wan told himself he was proud. He told himself this was growth. Independence. The natural result of a Padawan becoming his own man.
But pride did not ache like this.
Something else he dared not name... did.
At night, Obi-Wan lay awake long after the Temple had settled into its careful stillness. His breath measured, body at rest yet his mind could not. Sleep came rarely and only in fragments; restlessness clung to him like a second skin. The dark gave his thoughts permission. It stripped away duty and decorum and left him alone with the one thing he was never meant to indulge in: himself.
Cataloguing his memories... There, he was merciless.
He replayed everything with a precision that bordered on cruelty. Every argument, every reprimand softened just enough to sound kind, every conversation where Anakin had circled something unspoken and Obi-Wan had redirected him away from it.
He picked himself apart with the same exacting standards he applied to strategy and doctrine, cataloguing failure after failure with cold precise clarity.
'You should have known.'
'You should have listened.'
'You should have seen it.'
He told himself he had failed Anakin not in some grand, tragic way but in a thousand small, cowardly ones. He had hidden behind the Code (as always) because it was easier than admitting uncertainty. He had chosen patience when Anakin needed reassurance, distance when Anakin needed closeness, instruction when Anakin needed to be held both physically and emotionally, if not otherwise.
And worst of all, he had known better. He always, all the time, had known better.
Obi-Wan had always known that Anakin felt everything fully, disastrously, beautifully. He loved with his whole being. He hurt with the same intensity.
Obi-Wan loved him for that. Even as he tried, relentlessly, to temper it.
He loved Anakin’s restlessness. The way he paced when his thoughts grew too loud. The way he spoke too quickly when excited, words tumbling over one another like he was afraid they might escape him if he slowed down. He loved Anakin’s anger too. Not the destruction it could lead to, but the honesty of it. The refusal to be small in a galaxy that demanded obedience above all else.
If Obi-Wan to pick a quality, he'd say that he loved Anakin’s kindness most of all.
That quiet, inconvenient kindness that surfaced when no one was watching. The way Anakin checked on injured troopers long after medics had arrived. The way he carried guilt for losses that had never been his responsibility. The way he cared; recklessly, painfully, without armor.
Obi-Wan Kenobi loved Anakin Skywalker entirely.
And so, each night, the distance hurt all the more.
Anakin was still there during the day. Present, capable, brilliant. But something fundamental was retreating, step by step carefully. Obi-Wan felt it in the bond, that slow withdrawal. Not a severing. Never that. Just a gradual narrowing, as though Anakin were learning how to fold parts of himself away where Obi-Wan could no longer reach.
Obi-Wan told himself he deserved it.
'You taught him to do this,' he accused himself in the dark. 'You taught him how to hide.'
The thought was unbearable, and yet he returned to it again and again, turning it over like a blade pressed deliberately against own skin. If Anakin had learned distance, then Obi-Wan had been the teacher.
Sleep, when it seldom came, brought no relief. He would drift only to surface again moments later, heart tight, the phantom sense of Anakin’s presence hovering just out of reach. He reached for the bond without meaning to, the way one reaches for warmth in the dark and found only echoes.
That absence was worse than silence.
Because silence could be endured. Silence was neutral.
This felt like rejection.
He would lie there, staring into the dark. Again and again cataloguing everything he loved about Anakin with the same ruthless clarity he used to catalogue his failures. The curve of his smile when it was genuine. The intensity in his gaze when he focused on something he believed in. The way his presence in the Force burned bright and wild, impossible to ignore.
'And you told him to dim it' Obi-Wan thought bitterly. 'You told him to be less'
The cruelty of the thought sat heavy in his chest, but he did not push it away. He let it stay. Let it hurt. Let it burn. He believed, somewhere deep down, that suffering was the proper consequence of love unacted upon.
That this ache was the price of having wanted something he had never allowed himself to name.
He loved him even as Anakin slipped further from him each day, even as the younger man learned how to exist beyond Obi-Wan’s orbit. He loved him in restraint, in silence, in the long hours of the night when there was no one left to perform for and no Code left to hide behind.
And that, perhaps, was the most unforgivable failure of all.
Because loving Anakin had never been the problem.
It was everything Obi-Wan had done instead of loving him openly that haunted him now, in the restless hours where the dark offered no absolution, it only offered him memory, and the quiet, unrelenting knowledge that some distances are learned, not inevitable.
'What if I had stepped closer instead of holding the line?'
The question surfaced without permission, and Obi-Wan crushed it down as he had crushed so many others. Jedi did not ask what if. Jedi accepted what was.
Still, the need for relief pressed against him, insistent and unignorable.
The pleasure houses offered anonymity, if nothing else. No expectations. No history. No future. He chose them because they asked nothing of him beyond presence. Beyond touch. Beyond the simple acknowledgment that he existed as a man as well as a Jedi.
He told himself it was temporary. A pressure release. A controlled deviation.
He chose carefully. Always carefully.
Never golden hair. Never blue eyes. Never anyone who carried Anakin’s reckless confidence. That would have been too honest. Too close to the truth he refused to name.
Instead, he gravitated toward those who reminded him of what Anakin had been; before the war hardened him, before secrets had taught him how to disappear. Young men who watched him with curiosity rather than expectation. Who leaned into his touch as though seeking reassurance, not possession.
Obi-Wan was gentle with them. Always. Detached, but kind. He did not linger afterward. Did not promise anything he could not give.
And afterward—always afterward—he felt the weight of it settle back into his chest.
The guilt was familiar. Almost comforting in its predictability.
A Jedi should not need this, he told himself as he washed his body and his hands. He centered his breath, as he rebuilt his shields layer by layer.
A Jedi should be beyond it.
But Jedi were still people, no matter how much the Order preferred to forget it.
He returned to the Temple each time restored on the surface; calm, measured, impeccable. He advised younglings on patience. He sparred with Knights and offered quiet correction. He sat in Council chamber and spoke with reasoned clarity.
No one noticed the way his gaze lingered a second too long whenever Anakin entered the room.
No one noticed the micro-hesitation in his breathing when the bond stirred unexpectedly—when Anakin’s emotions brushed against him like a hand he was no longer allowed to hold.
Obi-Wan noticed.
He noticed everything.
And still, he said nothing.
Because speaking would mean acknowledging that restraint had not saved him from wanting. That perfection had not protected him from regret. That the distance growing between him and Anakin was not merely natural. It was a product of something he had helped create.
A perfect Jedi did not unravel.
Obi-Wan Kenobi simply learned how to carry the cracks so well that no one else could see them.